New car

We finally took the plunge and purchased a car. Rob was wondering if I was just sick of looking and decided to purchase the very next vehicle we looked at. Yes, I was sick of looking at cars. But I also thought this car was a good choice. We went with a Buick Lucerne, it has everything, I mean everything. It has features I did not even know existed. It has the Northstar V8 that we liked so well in the Aurora. But it also has heated and Cooled seats...I had never even heard of cooled seats! Rob is going to love the remote starter. And most importantly-it is Red! My crazy boy decided he had to have a red car. Well that color costs more and it is really, really hard to find them in red. We actually worked with a dealer who went and found it for us. I highly recommend Steve z. at Brookdale Buick- he was fantastic to work with. Anyway, it was a huge sense of relief to have that problem solved. The next dilemma is what to do with the Explorer.

Tired, sick and crabby

I feel like I should document all the fun I have been having this past month to remind me not to do this again! We are expecting our second child- 12 weeks now. All I have to say is if it had been this bad with Nicole, she would still be an only child. I feel like I have had the flu for the past two months while being a walking zombie. I am so tired! And then I ended up with a kidney stone- the ob said it can be a complication of pregnancy- what? Whatever it is, it is not even funny.

Speaking of funny. It was a very big surprise in the first place and God has a very funny sense of humor. I figured out I was pregnant while my husband was unemployed and we did not have health insurance- very funny timing. We have not gotten pregnant in three years and then it happens at probably the worst timing ever. But God has a plan, Rob has a job he really likes and we now have insurance! Sometimes you just have to trust!

Rob is really excited and Nicole is running around telling everyone she is going to be a big sister. I am too tired to be excited- I need a little time yet. Oh well, it will come.

Mourning the loss of my dear Aurora

Thanksgiving went pretty well. Made the wonderful trek across the river to WI for my family's Thanksgiving. Our schedule was noon in Wisconsin, 4pm back in MN for hubby's family. Great schedule for a small child, but that is a whole other rant. So we finished up lunch and went to drive back and my car's transmission went out, 20 minutes from my parents house. We turned around and drove back to my parent's house in second gear- the only gear that was working. My mom was nice enough to lend me the Suburban so we could continue on our merry way but it was 6pm by the time we arrived at dinner, oh well. Better late then never. And poor daughter complained about being car sick the whole drive down. On the way back, she kept getting upset that we had Grandma's car and we needed to give it back! Poor dear did not get a nap.

I think Rob is having a harder time letting go of the Aurora then I am. A new transmission will cost more then the car is worth! I finally told hubby, there is NO WAY we are getting it fixed. I think it is finally sinking in. It has been a fantastic car, I've had it for almost ten years and it has 225,000 miles on it. I think about the places it has taken me and it is incredible. It has taken me to Door County twice- girl's weekend and anniversary. It has taken me to more funerals then I really care to have gone too: Nikky's Funeral, Grandma's Funeral, and most recently a 12 hour drive out to Montana for my Uncle's funeral. It has always gotten me home safely. Even this time, it got us back to my parents safely.

We will probably wait to buy another car until Rob has found a job. Fortunately, with both of us home, we can make do with one car for a while. We still have Mom's Suburban and my dad really wants us to consider purchasing it. I really don't do that much driving so a Suburban would be fine if we didn't already have the Explorer. I am excited at the idea of car shopping, but hubby will not be doing the price negotiating!

New Nicole Pictures

Well Nicole's 3rd birthday photos turned out. It is hard to take a bad picture of her. You put a camera in front of her and she turns into the biggest ham. I really wish it was as easy to take pictures of all the daycare kids. Some of them are a little hard to take pictures of. I really don't envy a child photographer's job. They squirm and look everywhere but where you want them too. I think it might be easier to photograph monkeys.

We tried a new photographer for our family photos today- thanks hot mama for the recommendation! We went to Flash digital photography in Minnetonka. They did a great job and I can't wait to pick them up on Tuesday!

Nicole "Reading" her favorite book

Rob decided to record Nicole Reading to him last night. It is pretty darn cute so I thought I'd share it. I had nothing to do with it, I was away at a training class. One thing I am really proud of is Rob puts her to bed every night, they read together and he does an excellent job of it. It is really daddy/daughter time. Plus after being with her all day, it really is nice to have a break.

The training I went to was a giant waste of time. It's two hours of my life I want back. I hate parenting classes that are taught by people who do NOT have children. Classroom experience is completely different then first hand knowledge. It also convinced me that we want to do everything in our power to enroll Nicole in a private christian school. (the training class teacher works in the public school and spreads her agenda there). Yuck, oh well, only 2 more training classes to go for this year!!!

Family photos, no, frustration Yes!

Well, our family photo experience was awful, terrible, frustrating and just plain dumb. We went to JcPenney in Minnetonka because they are reasonably priced (hubby being laid off, we have to be a little price conscious)and they have done a fantastic job in the past. They were running over an hour behind on their appointments, the holiday background was broken and our photographer was awful. She would only snap one photo at a time and only did six of the family. I told her from the beginning that the family photo was the most important thing for us, I want something we can use in our Christmas cards. One of the poses she had us in was just shocking, it was rather inappropriate and would have given Grandma a heart attack when she opened the Christmas card. She had Nicole & I lay on the floor and with Rob over the top. All you see is right down my shirt, bra and everything! I did not have a low cut shirt on either, the pose was just dumb! What about us would make her think we'd enjoy a boob-shot for our family photo. Rob liked it but he is a typical guy. The other family photos were equally as horrible- Cole not looking at the camera, Cole's face obstructed by my boob, do you sense a theme here? Either I need a reduction or a different photographer. I have never taken just one picture at a time, when I am photographing the kids. You always take more pictures to make sure you get a good one. So we left frustrated, not ordering anything, had lunch and came back. They ignored my request for help when we came back so I finally literally grabbed the manager by the arm and said help us we just want to order a couple pictures of our daughter. I told the manager how mad I was at the family photos. She gave use the photos of Nicole for free but still it took the entire day, we were there from 10-12 and 1-2 to get that. I should have ordered a boob shot for my friend hot mama- she would have at least thought it was funny.

We did a family photo last summer for church when I took over leadership of Women's Ministry. All we did was set up a tripod in the backyard and use the timer and I really liked how it turned out (it's also my profile photo). We were thinking we could do that again for our Christmas family photo. I'm going to see if a friend at church could do them. We live on a beautiful park reserve, we could go out in the woods and trails. Anything would be better then the ding-dongs at JCP.
On the positive side, I really have to praise Jared the Galleria of Jewelry in Maple Grove. We have been having problems with our wedding rings (not purchased at Jared). Three different people and the manager all worked with me for over an hour and a half to brainstorm ideas and try and figure out a solution to the problem. The the lab even re sized my rings the same day so I could have them for the family photos. We still are not sure why we are both suddenly allergic to our rings but they did suggest some things we can try. We are starting with the inexpensive suggestions and working our way up from there. The most expensive suggestion being replacing them with platinum. Not really am option right now and we do love our rings. Well, I am praying something will work.

Personal Dilemma

Not a rant but more of a personal dilemma. We have family photos scheduled for Saturday. I look forward to new birthday photos for Cole and family photos for Christmas. I have been reflecting lately on the family. I really enjoy Cole and she is growing up so fast. I know Rob really wants more kids and I have been really against it. It is exhausting to for 12 children during the day. The idea of having an infant again scares me. The daycare kids are so demanding. I don't have time to sit down to eat lunch or any other time. The only thing that is saving me is the kids are all walking now and can go up and down the stairs on their own. Last year I had 6 kids in diapers at once. I only have 3 in diapers now and NO BOTTLES. For the first time in three years I have no baby bottles, it is huge.
I guess my biggest frustration is the economy and Rob being laid off. He will find a job and then we can explore our financial options. If I don't have to replace kids as they start going to school, I might be able to think about having more of our own. I really can't think about it right now. Financially we are doing fine as long I run at near full capacity. I really don't want this large of a group forever though.